Being newly in love feels great! Without question. But when is actually the right time for a new love? Or is it sometimes better to enjoy life alone for a while longer?
Are you doubting if it’s the right time for love: Does a new relationship fit into your life now or do you still need time for a little more self-discovery? A new love always means change. When another person enriches your everyday life, that can be wonderful. But that's exactly what a new challenge is: old habits are thrown off, new things are tried out—and all of that takes time. So how do you create enough space for your new partner without neglecting your own needs?
With all love - Take time for yourself
Life is a journey. With ups and downs, desires and wishes, adventures and boredom. Luckily, these phases alternate again and again. That's why it's not a bad thing at all if you seem a bit "lost" for a while and just still want to try things out. Especially after a long relationship, it can be enriching to live according to the “pleasure principle” for a while. And if you don't feel like doing anything, then doing nothing is perfectly fine.
The important thing is to recognize your own desires and to approach them consciously. This also means shifting your own focus. Maybe now is exactly the right moment to start that long-awaited backpacking trip, start a new job or spend more time with family and friends. The more you know yourself, the more confident and at ease you will be going through life. A little selfishness has never hurt, especially after a relationship has ended. This can also mean that the time for a new love is not yet ripe.
Sense and Sensuality
This feeling that nothing is missing in life right now and that everything should be exactly as it is now can be extremely liberating. If you are searching for the meaning of life, moments of non-committal sensuality may fit better into your life. Celebrate being unattached a little longer rahter than constantly having to find compromises with someone who only semi suits you.
You are just full of joy, feeling free and unattached. And suddenly someone appears on the scene who awakens in you the longing for more? Then the time may have come: You are ready to fall in love again. The more experienced you are through your previous relationships, the more you trust your intention. This feels right? Then let it happen!
Ready for your new love? With these 5 clues, you'll know:
- You love yourself unconditionally.
- You don't care about your ex-partner.
- You know exactly what and who is good for you.
- You are full of excitement and butterflies for a new person.
- You crave spending time with someone new.